From the first time I know yukkuri fandom, it’s always been like this stereotypes of shithead. The hardworking husband Marisa who cared for their children and the wife Reimu who just look for wealth (food) from their husband and think she’s entitled to everything because she’s a “tragic heroine” who deserve sympathy and is a “mother” which everyone is obliged to respect.
Actually in the beginning it was the opposite, Marisa was the absolute shithead, while the Reimus were the victims of their crap, somehow that was reversed as the fandom grow bigger, why? dunno, maybe z-aki's deibus hitted that hard on the fandom.