Like I said, I'd get to know the mate. Heck, the mate might be better-mannered than my pet yukkuri. You can never be sure -- don't follow how the fanon always plays those stories out.
The anon in this story is disturbed, but he has a vice -- his father, who apparently beat his mother.
That's what restrains him from actually hurting the yukkuri. He thinks, by giving into that, he'll become what he hates.
As for gold badge Marisa, here, I find it odd that she's Gold Badge, but still says ze.
At any rate, I like the fact that this Marisa is insightful. It's nice to see some upper-level intelligence from a yukkuri now and again. It gets old, seeing the same handful of cookie-cutter personalities from yukkuri which lead to the inevitable ending of misery and death.
The analytical approach to seeing casual, everyday yukkuri is refreshing, rather than, "LOLKILLTHEMALL." Simple observations. Maybe helping one here and there.
KillAllYukkuris said: No, it is stupidity. You don't try to provoke a man who is about to kill / torture you. You play along and wait for an oppurtunity.
Then you'd just call her a shithead for taking advantage of.
Seriously, in your mind, they can't win, so there's no point of an 'alternative approach.'
salvationhope said: She still betray him if you had pet yukkuri and you dont like your own yukkuri mate with stray right.
you saw your yukkuri had baby now what you gonna to do.
I'd have had my yukkuri fixed.
If that still happened, I'd see how things play out. If Marisa seemed scummy, like she was using Reimu, then I'd dispose of her quietly. Outright killing off the mate will make the pet flee out of fear.
Besides, mating is genetically encoded in every creature. Why should yukkuri be excluded from that rule?
Part of the training for badges: A yukkuri has to learn how to take off their Mister Accessory and keep it off for a while. The longer they can be easy without it, the better the badge they earn.
The younger they are, the easier they learn. Adolescent to teens have a harder time. Adults have a fairly easy time if you explain to them why you're taking their accessory.