Perhaps you should stop projecting your own bdsm inclinations into the population here. Certainly this place draws in a lot of people who enjoy seeing others tortured, but that doesn't necessarily correlate with enjoying having themselves tortured. Or maybe you're thinking back to Ohai's comment here in post #21436 and assume he represents all of us?
I, for one, would not want to trade in my testicle for the privilege of smelling an old hag's putrid sock, and neither should any self-respecting man. But in our modern feminized society riddled with female hypergamy, I'm rather sure many starved men would sacrifice their manhood for a bit of female attention.